TikToker Reveals Why AUTHENTICITY Is DYING in a World Obsessed With PERFECTION

In this episode, we dig into what it really means to be authentic in a world obsessed with filters and curated feeds, exploring why genuine connection feels so rare and why staying true to yourself matters more than ever. I’m joined by Solania, an Ethiopian TikToker from the DMV with over 65,000 followers, known for her unfiltered mix of humor, faith, and genuine storytelling.

Together we unpack how she keeps her voice real on a platform built for perfection, the moments that tested her transparency, and why embracing your true self can be both freeing and challenging.Along the way we dive into big questions: why we care so much about others’ opinions, how parents and culture shape (and sometimes stifle) our identity, the role of nonchalance and emotional honesty, and how social media can both inspire and damage our sense of self.If you’ve ever felt pressure to fit in, wondered whether authenticity is harder for men or women, or questioned how culture and faith tie into staying genuine—this conversation is for you.

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DISCLAIMER: "The Brief Dive" Podcast represents the opinions of Filimon and his guests who are also not licensed professionals. The content provided should not be taken as medical advice, diagnosis, or any sort of medical treatment. This content is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only.Solania's Socials:

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Timestamps:

00:00 Preview

0:23 Intro

1:47 What Does Authenticity Mean?

3:01 Why Are We Running Low On Authenticity?

4:33 Why Do We Actually Care About What People Think?8:20 Losing Yourself In Fitting In

11:50 How Parents Tie Into It

13:50 Why Habeshas Are Afraid Of Being Themselves

21:00 Why Do We Care About What Our Parents Think?24:40 Surrounding Yourself With These Type Of People

29:40 The Only Question You Need To Ask Yourself

33:20 Is It Harder For Men Or Women To Be Authentic?

38:40 Why Are We Being Nonchalant?

43:30 "Cut That Rope"45:09 Emotions=Authenticity?

49:38 The Secret Behind True Authenticity

54:00 Examples We See On Social Media

56:13 "Griefing" An Experience

58:00 Losing Ourselves In Authenticity?

1:02:30 This Damages Your Spirit!

1:04:18 How Culture Affects Authenticity/Identity

1:32:58 Graphic Videos And Desensitization

1:38:25 The Power Behind Showing Your Struggles

1:42:20 How Can We Live An Authentic Life?

1:45:45 Outro